Sunday, July 25, 2010

It's Over

It is hard enough to make local relationships work but having miles, states, and sometimes even an ocean makes it even more difficult. It will survive as long as you are willing to work it out.

As a long distance couple, it's important to do other things together besides the usual phone call. In a long distance relationship, interaction over the phone can become dull in the long run.

Long distance relationships can and will test you and your partner. Need to trust him/her entirely.

Just think... People in short-distance relationships do not spend the majority of their time talking, but rather doing things with each other.

It’s important to establish and maintain an emotional connection. Remember that e-mail and even instant messengers can increase the possibility of misunderstandings.

Write love letters. Send small gifts for no reason. In this case, quantity is as important as quality.

People have free will and no one can or should control another person. As long as you are both interested in being in the relationship, you will stick with it and distance will not make a difference.

When I’m alone, I take out time to see the photos of my love or any romantic message from him. At night, before sleeping, try to recollect those wonderful moments that I spent with him. Try to get cozy with him in my dreams. Remember those times when he cared for me.

A relationship must be built on strong foundations of trust, understanding and determination to make it work. The two partners should be reasonable about their expectations and willing to cooperate so that the relationship can lead to a happy ending.

Things will get better with time, and even the relationship will become better. Have hope.